Heather Hillenbrand, LMFT, CST is licensed in the state of Arizona and certified as a Sex Therapist through the American Association of Sex, Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT). Heather utilizes Emotion Focused Therapy and Internal Family Systems (IFS) in her practice. She is also a soon to be certified ketamine assisted therapist through the Integrative Psychiatry Institute (IPI). Heather specializes in supporting couples and individuals with ethical nonmonogamy, sexual trauma, erotic creativity, orgasm difficulties, desire differences, LGBTQ positive, sexual communication, and BDSM/Kink. Heather is also the author of two sex education books, A Girls' Magic and A Boy's Magic intended to support parents with the tough conversations around sex and sexuality.
Heather Hillenbrand, LMFT
A Girl's Magic assists parents with the ‘tough’ conversation about the transformation girls experience from ages 7 - 12.

Karen Lucas
I brought the copies of your book that you signed for my granddaughters. Tonight, six-year-old Faith read it to me. She loved it! She loved the pictures, how the bicycle changed, and she did a beautiful job sounding out the unfamiliar words. And it was such a lovely, sweet experience for me. Thank you!
Sharon Maloney, PhD in Women's Studies
Heather, I think it is truly beautiful how you have captured and reveal the ‘magic’ of being female in this book. I can imagine it being used by mothers and daughters as a sacred teaching guide. I have to say what a stunningly beautiful job you have done with this book! It is truly a work of art – on so many levels. The artwork is graceful and lush, the metaphors are evocative and it drew me into an altered state by following its flow.
Rachel Dellinger
Regarding a talk I gave on the Importance of Sex Education: "Girllllll!!!!! You were amazing last night! You blew my mind, your presence, passion, and power were so palpable! You were a rock star up there! Thank you for the work you are doing in the world! You are an inspiration!"

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Whether you're navigating challenges or simply want to strengthen your bond, our couples therapy in Phoenix focuses on building trust, emotional closeness, and sexual connection through evidence-based and relational approaches.
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This practice is committed to inclusivity and specializes in working with diverse relationship structures and sexual identities:
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A Girl's Magic assists parents with the ‘tough’ conversation about the transformation girls experience from ages 7 - 12.
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Soul Fire Sex and Relationship Therapy offers compassionate, trauma-informed care for individuals and couples seeking to deepen intimacy, improve communication, and heal emotional wounds. If you’re searching for a sex therapist in Phoenix, AZ, you’ve come to a safe, inclusive space where your unique needs are honored.
