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Soul Fire Sex and Relationship Therapy is dedicated to supporting couples and individuals to improve sexual intimacy, emotional intimacy, and much much more. . . 

Dedication

Heather Hillenbrand, LMFT, CST is licensed in the state of Arizona and certified as a Sex Therapist through the American Association of Sex, Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT). Heather utilizes Emotion Focused Therapy and Internal Family Systems (IFS) in her practice. She is also a soon to be certified ketamine assisted therapist through the Integrative Psychiatry Institute (IPI). Heather specializes in supporting couples and individuals with ethical nonmonogamy, sexual trauma, erotic creativity, orgasm difficulties, desire differences, LGBTQ positive, sexual communication, and BDSM/Kink. Heather is also the author of two sex education books, A Girls' Magic and A Boy's Magic intended to support parents with the tough conversations around sex and sexuality.​

Heather Hillenbrand, LMFT

A Girl's Magic assists parents with the ‘tough’ conversation about the transformation girls experience from ages 7 - 12.

 

Sessions

Sessions are rooted in an education; where knowledge is power and the client is the guide of what they want to learn.

Books

A Girl's Magic assists parents with the ‘tough’ conversation about the transformation girls experience from ages 7 - 12.

 

Speaking

Heather is available to speak on the topic of sexuality at private and public events. Bring her to your organization or event to support sex education and understanding for this new world.

Workshops

Soul Fire Productions offers a variety of workshops to support the variety of needs regarding sex and sexuality. 

Karen Lucas

I brought the copies of your book that you signed for my granddaughters. Tonight, six-year-old Faith read it to me. She loved it! She loved the pictures, how the bicycle changed, and she did a beautiful job sounding out the unfamiliar words. And it was such a lovely, sweet experience for me. Thank you!

Sharon Maloney, PhD in Women's Studies

Heather, I think it is truly beautiful how you have captured and reveal the ‘magic’ of being female in this book. I can imagine it being used by mothers and daughters as a sacred teaching guide. I have to say what a stunningly beautiful job you have done with this book! It is truly a work of art – on so many levels. The artwork is graceful and lush, the metaphors are evocative and it drew me into an altered state by following its flow. 

Rachel Dellinger

Regarding a talk I gave on the Importance of Sex Education: "Girllllll!!!!! You were amazing last night! You blew my mind, your presence, passion, and power were so palpable! You were a rock star up there! Thank you for the work you are doing in the world! You are an inspiration!" 

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Couples Therapy in Phoenix

Whether you're navigating challenges or simply want to strengthen your bond, our couples therapy in Phoenix focuses on building trust, emotional closeness, and sexual connection through evidence-based and relational approaches.

Individual Therapy

Individual therapy at Soul Fire offers a supportive, trauma-informed space to explore your relationship with self, sexuality, and emotional well-being. Whether you're healing from past experiences, navigating identity, or seeking greater intimacy and confidence, we provide affirming, sex-positive care tailored to your unique needs.

LGBTQ+ Affirming Therapy

At Soul Fire, we proudly serve the LGBTQ+ community with affirming, respectful care. Our LGBTQ+ affirming therapist in Phoenix understands the importance of identity-affirming support in both individual and relationship dynamics.

Trauma-Informed Sex Therapy

We provide trauma-informed sex therapy in Phoenix, helping clients heal from past experiences and reconnect with their bodies, desires, and partners in a compassionate, empowering environment.

Specialized Therapy Services for Every Relationship

Inclusive and Sex Positive Approach

This practice is committed to inclusivity and specializes in working with diverse relationship structures and sexual identities:

  • Intimacy Counseling in Phoenix for emotional and sexual connection

  • Polyamory-Friendly Therapist in Phoenix for ethical non-monogamous relationships

  • Kink-Aware Therapist in Phoenix offering non-judgmental support for kink and BDSM communities

  • Sexual Health Counseling in Phoenix to address concerns around desire, function, and body image

A Girl's Magic assists parents with the ‘tough’ conversation about the transformation girls experience from ages 7 - 12.

 

Sex Relationship Therapy in Phonix

Soul Fire Sex and Relationship Therapy offers compassionate, trauma-informed care for individuals and couples seeking to deepen intimacy, improve communication, and heal emotional wounds. If you’re searching for a sex therapist in Phoenix, AZ, you’ve come to a safe, inclusive space where your unique needs are honored.

Convenient Online Therapy Available

In person therapy is ideal, however for a variety of reasons, Soul Fire offers online sex therapy in Arizona, providing accessible, confidential sessions from the comfort of your home.

 

Begin Your Sex Therapy Journey

If you're searching for a “sex therapist near me” who offers trauma-informed, affirming, and inclusive care, Soul Fire is here for you. Schedule a consultation today and take the first step toward a more connected, fulfilling relationship with yourself and others.

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